|These are just a tiny sample
of the actual letters and emails we've received from couples we've
worked with over the years, along with a few from relationship experts
who have reviewed our material and wanted to let us know what they
Can you see yourself in these? Do any of the challenges or emotions
these couples are experiencing sound familiar?
into a nutshell the answer to every problem in
and Frances Hunter, internationally known
authors of more than 50 books
MUST for all my marriage counseling
Gary C. Lange, PhD, LMFT, LCPC, MS, LPC
"Your book is changing lives!"
I want you to know your
book is changing lives!
My husband has
changed his attitude and is treating me like
I’m his bride. We’ve been married 15 years. I
hooked him on the book by reading him chapter 20 first! Hee hee hee!
One of my brothers
is reading it and can’t put it down. After
20 years of marriage, his wife says he is now making changes and is
even getting up in the middle of the night to read it.”
"It's amazing how much progress we've made!"
and I are doing great!
is amazing how much progress we've made in our marriage in the past
few months after 15 years of dysfunction.
gave the book to my father (my dad and I are much alike). He is now
working the program and attending our men's support group with Tom and
book is really changing lives!”
have magically disappeared!"
“Dear Joel and Kathy,
If not for [you] I would have missed out on
all of the beautiful years that God has in store for my future as a
husband to Christine. My three precious children would have missed out
on having me as resident “daddy” and I would have
missed out on being resident “daddy” to them. How
blessed we as a family are.
book has changed my life! Before reading it I felt like my
marriage to Christine was at a dead end; there was no place to turn for
As I applied [your] principles, our relationship immediately changed
for the better. I have gotten my act together; Christine’s
problems have magically disappeared! I never would have believed this
to be possible until I experienced it myself.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart, Joel and Kathy, for showing me
how to be “The Man of Her Dreams”. Christine surely
is “The Woman of Mine!”
May God bless you both.”
Robinson, Tulsa, Oklahoma
"I have my husband back!"
Joel & Kathy,
Mark took me to
dinner for my birthday this week to a very lovely and romantic
restaurant. Suddenly, he was down on his knees asking me to marry him
again while presenting me with a 'knock your socks off' gorgeous ring!
It was a very special moment and I was completely oblivious to anything
else that was going on in the room...I
have my husband back.”
-- Patty S.
"We are wonderfully in
love! We never thought this could happen!"
Joel and Kathy,
as done so many amazing things in our lives...Tim has spent spent more
time at home than I could
have imagined (and as reported in the last letter, we are actually
wonderfully in love! We never thought this could happen!) I wonder what
will happen when the world sees husbands loving their wives as Christ
loves the church! I
believe you have the ministry of the day,
next to worshipping God himself."
so sweet, it almost doesn't seem fair!"
"[My husband now] loves me every minute of every day and I know it. He
listens to me
when I talk (most of the time) and when I ask him to put down the paper
and look at me while I am talking, he does and then says "I'm sorry
Why did it take us sooooo long to be nice to each other. It has
only been a month, but God has blessed us so much because we are both
doing what he wants us to do, Inside and outside of our home.
I ALMOST FORGOT-WE WENT BOWLING ONE NIGHT AND I NOTICED THAT EVEN HIS
BUTT LOOKED BETTER. Thank you Lord and thank you JOEL and KATHY... Life
is so Sweet, it almost doesn't seem fair."
-- Deb D (of
Deb and Gary)
have definitely been a blessing to us!"
have had so many things in my life that have caused me
From my father (parents) to one failed marriage to failed
relationships. My strength has come from God, but Joel and
have given me tools to apply to my second marriage so that we can have
the best marriage ever. Through this application
I can be
by my husband.
you Joel and Kathy for sharing your own circumstances to bless
others. You have definitely been a blessing to us."
-- Shannon (of Kirk
"I will be forever
grateful to you for saving our marriage!"
you so much for sharing your story on how to have an Outrageously
Happy Marriage...I know there is hope and now we have the information
an Outrageously Happy Marriage. I am truly getting healed
the past through my husband. I will be forever grateful to
and your Ministry for saving our Marriage."
"We are truly blessed!"
"It is truly
an act of God that our children are living in a peaceful
intact home today. We know that the Lord led us to your books. He used
your testimony and the testimony of others restored after taking hold
of your new marriage paradigms to give us hope.
that your family has showed such strength and that you have continued
to battle for marriages through this tough season of your lives.
We would just like to say
thank you that we were able to enjoy a wonderful holiday with our
children today because of your strong faith, sacrifice, and willingness
to live out the Christian life for real. This Thanksgiving together
would not have been possible without us finding your ministry.
truly blessed to have benefited from your wisdom, faith and
perseverance and for that we are very, very thankful."
Kim and Paul
"If you think that your
marriage is over and it can't be fixed,
felt like my
marriage was over.
have been together for 20 yrs. I was so lonely in my
and felt like nothing could break down the walls between us.
prayed everyday to love my husband and to be in love with him.
was really hard for me. It seemed to me that no
what I tried to do to get him to "love me" or "make me feel important
to him" it was a waste of time. Some things might work for a little
while and I'd be happy and then he would go back to his old ways and my
heart would feel heavy again.
feeling like a worn out psycho Yo-Yo.
think that your marriage is over and it can't be fixed, then you
are wrong. Joel and Kathy, through honest, sharing, and God's
grace, can help you take your blinders off. They can help you
refill your heart with the love that you once shared with your
spouse. He will become more than the man of her dreams and
will become more than the women of his. I know it's
to be better than I could ever have imagined.
people say "Well what do you expect when you are together 20
years?" I say I expect an amazing, open, honest, carefree
relationship with my Best Friend, My lover, and My Husband, who loves
and cherishes me with every breath.
you Joel and Kathy for following God's calling for you to share
your pain so that others can heal."
Sister in Christ,
To date we've worked with over
10,000 Christian couples
just like you through our books, DVD sets, live seminars, Weekend
Intensives, nationwide phone marriage mentoring and more.
Now we are offering something new to help even more couples go from
to an Outrageously Happy Marriage! This course is going to go
around the world and reach millions - and you are one of the first to
Based on our own experiences and a growing body of
from our own
marriage ministry, we
believe these are the most powerful methods
available for Christian couples who want to make their marriages work
the way God intended.
"This Sounds Great, Joel and
Kathy, But What if I'm the Only One Who's Committed to Making a Change?"
We sometimes get asked this question, and it's not hard to see why.
It's rare that both spouses in a marriage will have the same view of
that marriage, or be completely "in sync" about when, what, or even if,
things need to change.
The truth of the matter is this...
if you're the only one who wants to make your marriage work, you can do
It's vitally, VITALLY important that you understand this. You and your
spouse do not need to be in total agreement that you need help. Even if
one of you is completely unaware of the problems your marriage is
In fact, most of the couples we work with came to us because either the
wife or the husband -- but frequently NOT both -- sought help.
We have specific strategies for a wife to practice if her husband is
not interested; and we have a whole set of different strategies for a
husband to utilize if his wife is not interested.
So please, don't be discouraged because you think you're alone in
wanting this to work. It happens all the time and in no way does it
impact your chances for success with this program.
Your Marriage...Completely Transform
Now, one other thing we want you to keep in mind...
talking about here is
not just "saving your marriage." It isn't just doing the
minimum so that you can "put up with each other."
standards for that kind of marriage have no place in what
we show you how to accomplish. That's not a life filled with joy. It's
an "existence." If that's what you're after, this isn't for you.
Of course we'll show you some immediate steps to take if you're in the
"red zone." We understand that some marriages are on the brink (we've
been there ourselves don't forget) and need some emergency action. We
work with couples like this all the time and know how to handle it.
So yes, you're going to
learn about the things you need to do immediately to
prevent divorce, end separation, stop fighting, prevent (or recover
from) adultery, or any other pressing issue that's destroying your
But eventually that issue is going to get resolved. And when that
happens, once we've
dealt with the emergency issues, that's when we start working together
to transform your marriage.
Where we're going
to get you is to the point
where your marriage is outrageously happy,
not just where it survives.
So, now let’s
talk about how we’re going to get you
moving in that direction starting RIGHT NOW.
spent the last four plus years healing relationships
and putting couples on track for the best experiences they’ve
ever shared as a couple.
the “20,000 foot view” of what we
Here's exactly what we suggest you do right
now to fix your marriage before it's too late!
|Step 1: Repair
Expect During this Stage:
is the most intense part of your course.
1, you need to see why
everything you've been taught about having a
successful, loving marriage has been wrong (and has
making things worse!).
step, you'll experience
your first "Eureka!"
you finally get the true "secrets" of
marriages, and begin to understand how to bring this into your own
immediate and dramatic changes in your marriage, often
within 24 hours of receiving the course material.
The main objective of this part of your course will be immediate
healing of the issues that are driving you and your spouse apart.
This section will show you how to "save your marriage" --
even if you think it's beyond repair.
It's important to stablize your
relationship before we move on to Stage 2, which is where the magic
1, You'll Discover How to...
Finally once and for all let go of
the "baggage" that you think is
destroying your marriage.
an end to the bickering and fighting that's
the frustration, pain, and worry that may be so bad it's
keeping you up at night.
end any infidelity (either emotional or physical) that may
occurring in your marriage.
from the pain and resentment caused by unfaithfulness.
See clearly for the first time in your life God's true
plan for your
marriage -- the true role of the Christian wife and the
true role of
the Christian husband.
full marriage manuals totaling more than 600 pages:
-- The Man of Her Dreams / The
Woman of His
-- Livin' It and Lovin' It
Hours of Video Instruction from Our Live Marriage-Success
phone support through our three weekly teleseminars
for a limited time!)
one-on-one support through our member's only online
marriage forum (Included FREE
for a limited time!)
Sample Video from Stage 1
(Note: THIS IS A
SMALL "SNIPPET" FROM THE FULL VIDEOS YOU'RE GETTING.
Also, the videos in the actual course don't include the "lower third"
URL tagline, which can get distracting. They are also larger and higher
quality than these samples.)
You Can Expect During this Stage:
Stage 2 you'll continue to build on the
principles you discovered in the previous sessions.
that have plagued your marriage -- many times for years! -- have
You have a new relationship with your
spouse and the true plan for your marriage is becoming clear.
or bickering that you were suffering from before has, by this stage,
largely disappeared. (Some couples
who have experienced
this describe it as "magic.") Any threats of infidelity should be a
distant memory by this point.
Now that your marriage has been "saved," we
can really get down to
objective of Stage 2 will be to start your marriage on the path to true
By the end of
Stage 2, you will have 95% of the knowledge and tools you need
to experience the kind of marriage most couples only dream about.
If you want to take your marriage "to the next level," you can add on the
teaching material from Step 3 for the small price of $47.
(Step 3 is included FREE with your order today!)
Step 2, You'll Discover How to...
Develop new habits that will form the foundation
for a marriage that's truly built to last.
your marriage once and for all.
that your wife will always be sexually available.
the kind of marriage where your wife wants
to be a blessing to her husband, instead of feeling like
she has to.
a husband is really after when he flirts or "takes a
second look" -- and how to make him never want to do either one again.
Two full unabridged
of our marriage manuals.The audiobooks can be burned to a
CD, downloaded to an iPod or MP3
player, or listened to on your computer.
(The audios will help internalize the
principles and make your marriage transformation happen twice as fast!)
Additional Hours of Video Instruction from
support through our three weekly teleseminars
one-on-one support through our member's only online
Video from Step 2
THIS IS A SMALL "SNIPPET" FROM THE FULL VIDEOS YOU'RE GETTING. Also,
the videos in the actual course don't include the "lower third" URL
tagline, which can get distracting. They are also larger and higher
quality than these samples.)
Advanced Marriage Miracle Sessions
Included FREE with Your Online Order Today!)
Expect During this Stage:
Quite simply, during this stage
making your marriage better and better every single day.
time, you have probably internalized your new approach to your marriage
and everything is coming naturally to you.
help you create an "outrageously
Stage 3, You Will...
Replace thoughts about "saving your marriage"
with a new focus on making your marriage perfect.
additional month of live
phone support (a total of THREE full months!) through our
three weekly teleseminars
one-on-one support through our member's only online
hours of downloadable audio marriage coaching sessions --
these are special sessions for our Advanced Members only!
The complete "One-Minute
Teachings" DVD set in downloadable format
subscription to our bi-weekly support letters (extended
from two months)
MP3 audio version of our entire 8-hour live Bradenton marriage seminar
(burn to a CD, transfer to your MP3 player, or listen on your computer)
A Special Closing Message from
Joel and Kathy
Let's Quickly Go Over This
||Your Price Today
||Our two acclaimed
||8 Hours of Video
Instruction from our live Marriage-Success Seminar
||Full anabridged audiobook
versions of our two marriage manuals (a full 13 CDs worth of content!)
Three full months of live phone support through our three-times-a-week
24/7 one-on-one support through our online marriage forum
full audio versions of our Marriage-Success Seminar suitable for
burning to CD, transferring to an iPod or MP3 player, or listening at
complete "One-Minute Teachings" 2-DVD set in downloadable format
hours of live audio tutorials with couples in crisis (many of the
issues we cover in these sessions are shared by you)
Lifetime subscription to our bi-weekly support letters to help you get
the most out of
each stage of the course.
ADDED! The complete "Marriage Miracle" Session 3
Tutorials! Don't stop with just "saving your marriage." Bring a true miracle
into your life with the most advanced material we've ever offered
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Here's how the INSTANT DOWNLOAD works...
getting immediate access to our Private Member's
where you can download everything described above, including our two
marriage manuals (more than 625 pages worth of
life-changing relationship insight) PLUS the full and unabridged
audiobook versions in downloadable MP3 format, the entire video
coaching series, the 15 hours of raw,
unedited and unrehearsed couples coaching calls, and more.
get the entire package PLUS access
to our member marriage forums
immediately, AND you'll receive
the access codes for your free
As part of this, we insist that you
try everything for a full 60 days before you make a decision
about whether or not it's right for you.
If this doesn't do everything
we claim and more, we will buy the entire
program back from you -- no questions asked! -- and let you keep all of
the free bonuses!
Did You Know...
routinely invest $595
plus airfare, plus hotel, plus
to attend one of our Weekend Intensive Marriage Seminars, and we’re
constantly sold out.
In fact, those private weekends,
which we strictly limit to seven
couples and seven couples ONLY, have generated more than 200 LETTERS OF
THANKS from people who have completely changed their marriages 100%
after just one weekend of working with us.
everything we’re offering today represents a
huge portion of the secrets that couples learn at our Weekend Marriage
In fact, there's
so much in this package alone that 90% of couples will
completely transform their relationships from this material alone! EVERY BIT OF
INFORMATION THAT YOU NEED TO GET YOUR TOTAL MIRACLE IS IN
If you were to
spend the hundreds of dollars it would normally take to get all of this
material, AND come to a Weekend Marriage Intensive, it would cost
average of $2,000 once travel
and accommodations are figured in.
Would it be worth
You tell me.
much is saving your marriage worth to you?
What's the cost to
children's future? What's the "cost" of living in a marriage that is
mediocre at best? What's the cost of a life unfulfilled?
These are your
secret keys that will lead you to an outrageously happy
marriage that few ever will experience.
Can you put a
price tag on that?
Think about it this way...
someone came to
you and said, “I can solve every problem
in your marriage and make you happier than you’ve ever been
before in your life,” would that be worth $200 to you? How
about $800? How about $8,000?
Of course it would.
you’re not spending anywhere CLOSE to that amount
to get your course today.
Please don't let your marriage
continue to get worse and worse until,
eventually, it ends up as just another statistic.
You can have an outrageously
happy Christian marriage. We're living
proof, and we've provided some quotes from other couples we've worked
with thoughout this letter and below.
Take this step with us
your course today
Total package value: $652.00
Your price today: Just
Payment of $97
We just want to
leave you with one last message from us,
just so you understand where we’re coming from.
We want you to
make a good choice about who you choose to work with to
save, repair and improve your marriage, so we want to make sure you
everything about our methods and why they work, just so there are no
surprises later on.
We are committed
Christians. We believe
that Christ has laid
out a complete blueprint for both husbands and wives for how
they’re supposed to act and treat each other in order to be
blissfully happy in their life together.
HOWEVER, we do NOT
nor teach the innefective, traditional marriage teachings that have
been routinely taught in Christian churches for years.
Christians as a
group have a 50% divorce rate. Obviously, the marriage teachings that
have been taught in most Christian circles for years DO NOT WORK! (Re:
The husband is "the boss" and the wife is to simply follow his
aren’t what many people would consider “fire and
brimstone” types, but we are committed in our faith.
If this bothers
you, perhaps what we’re going to share
isn’t for you. My recommendation is that it’s still
worthwhile to check out our material.
Many couples who did not consider
themselves "Christian" have had the same transformation in their
marriages that we had. These are
universal principles that work for
every couple who wants to live happily ever after.
everything comes with a 60-day no questions asked money-back
So if you find
we’re not your style, that’s fine.
No harm done. At least you tried us out.
found that most people, even those who don’t
consider themselves particularly “religious,” have
still realized amazing transformations using our program.
We hope you decide
to check it out. If you do and decide it’s
not for you, no hard feelings.
Yes, the $97
price DOES include the entire three-part course described above. This
is a ONE-TIME payment -- not a subscription price!
And yes, we
know 60 days is a LONG time to offer a complete refund if
the package isn’t right for you, but that’s simply
how we prefer to do business. We insist you try it completely at our
you to have plenty of time to utilize ALL of the material
and see the changes in your marriage and your life for yourself.
is the best way we know of to prove that what we do works.
Thanks again for
reading, and God Bless!